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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
Let me introduce you to our today's guests.
- Comedian Moon Se Yoon! - It's nice to meet you.
(Moon Se Yoon, the youngest among the gluttons)
Actress Kim Sung Eun!
It's nice to meet you.
She's so pretty.
- Girl crush worthy rapper, Cheetah! - Cheetah!
JB and Jin Young of GOT7!
Hello.
- Whenever I see Sung Eun... - Yes?
I know that she's married and has two children,
- but her body figure... - It hasn't changed at all.
- You look like a single woman. - Really?
Haven't you been married for almost 10 years?
- I've been married for nine years. - Already?
Do you have a secret to a happy marriage?
We live separately. My husband is still in Gangwon Province.
- Right. - We lived together...
- for only a few years. - I see.
He served in the military...
- and played in the French league. - Right. He served in the military.
We always say to each other,
"I miss you. Hurry home. I love you."
- Se Yoon is also very romantic. - That's right.
- He's a romantic guy. - He...
- loves his wife so much. - Exactly.
I was a bit late because I had to kiss my wife before leaving.
(Shocked)
- I can see that. - It took me some time.
- How long does he kiss his wife? - Exactly.
- Well... - Listen.
Try leaving home after kissing her without going further.
What are you talking about?
- That's why you're always late. - He also hugs her and everything.
Exactly.
Se Yoon is very popular as the king of eating shows.
- You're flattering me. - Who would you...
choose as the king of eating shows?
- There are a lot of fatties, - "Fatties"?
but Yeong Ja is the best when it comes to eating shows.
- She's the best. - She's so popular these days.
However, I really hate what you said before that.
"There are a lot of fatties, but..."
He said, "But..."
(Yeong Ja is sulky.)
I was impressed when she said,
"You don't cut a small piece of cake into smaller pieces."
- I was amazed. - Back then...
While recording Hello, we got a piece of cake.
I said we should share it together.
- I was going to cut it with a fork, - That's right.
and she got so angry and said,
"You don't cut a small piece of cake into smaller pieces."
- I was so touched. - She's amazing.
- Everyone has his own public image. - Right.
Maybe because Cheetah grew her hair and dyed it,
she looks like a sophisticated elderly woman in LA.
She looks sophisticated.
An elderly woman with no wrinkles. One who takes care of themselves.
You're misunderstood because of your tough image, right?
Many people address me as someone older than them.
In many cases, it turns out I'm younger than them.
She's actually very young.
- Aren't you in your 20s? - Yes, I'm still in my 20s.
In order to make it easier for us to understand,
can you tell us some stars who are the same age as you?
- There's Kim Yuna. - Kim Yuna?
- Kim Yuna is the same age as you. - Yes. I was born in 1990.
- So is Kim Tae Ri. - Is Kim Tae Ri...
- the same age as you too? - And Park Bo Young.
(Don't think I'm older than you.)
JB and Jin Young, is there anything that's different from...
what is known to the public?
We're known to be bad at exercising.
It's because we looked like we're bad at it on TV shows.
Oh, you're actually good at it.
Then how many pushups can you do...
- in a row? - I'm sure they can do a lot.
I think I can do 30 pushups in a row.
- 30 pushups? - Yes.
- I can do that too. - They became competitive.
- Really? You can do that? - Of course.
- Se Yoon can do 30 pushups? - All right.
- Then show us. - He can do 30 pushups in a row?
(Se Yoon versus JB versus Jin Young)
Ready. Get set. Go!
- 1. My goodness. - 1, 2, 3, 4,
- 5, 6, 7. - My goodness.
(Se Yoon is doing unexpectedly well.)
(They're doing pushups fast...)
(with all their might.)
- 7, 8, 9, - 7, 8, 9.
- Goodness gracious. - 10, 11, 12.
- I can do the rest if you're tired. - 13, 14.
- 14... 14. - Oh, gosh.
(I can't do any more pushups.)
Are you really going to do it? Can you do it?
(Surprised)
- She can do it. - My gosh.
(Yeong Ja is doing it in a stable stance.)
She's good.
(Is there anything she can't do?)
JB and Jin Young, good job.
I may have a lot of fat, but I have a lot of muscles too.
The two of you did 30 pushups combined.
- They're really good. - Indeed.
That's right. I bet they do it on a regular basis.
- Let us hear your new song. - That's great.
Please come forward.
("Lullaby" by GOT7)
(Fatally attractive)
(This is nice.)
(This is how great a global idol group is.)
Please give them a round of applause!
Thank you.
We have three stories as always.
I wonder what they are. Show us the keywords please.
- "Please Don't Break Up". - "The Sorrow of Superman".
"The Youngest Daughter's Rebellion".
I will read this story.
Oh, there's a role of a dad.
- You should play the role. - Sure. I'll do it.
- Of course. - We'll give you extra 50 cents...
- added to your appearance fee. - That sounds good.
"Hello, I am Jung Yoon Seo, and I'm in sixth grade."
"I'm from Changwon, South Gyeongsang Province."
"Every night, I feel scared and anxious."
"It's because my dad..."
"Gosh. Yoon Seo!"
(Hiccup)
(Talking gibberish)
(Hiccup)
"Get up now, Yoon Seo."
(Screaming)
(He startled me.)
"The person who gives me a hard time every single night..."
- "is my dad." - I see.
"My goodness. Security guard."
"You see, I had a really, really tough day."
(I can't help but laugh.)
"Sir, please sit down here."
Se Yoon, spit it out and play your part properly.
Or swallow it.
- He's still chewing food. - I see.
"You see, I'm so stressed out."
(Wailing)
"Sir."
- He's talking to a security guard. - "Tell everyone to come out."
"Tell everyone to gather here. I'm so distressed."
"However, the problem is..."
"Dad, can't you stop behaving like that after drinking?"
"You're so embarrassing. You know that?"
"What are you talking about?"
(Does he really not know?)
"That's right. The next day,"
"he can't remember anything."
"This is why he wrote a written promise..."
"in front of my mom several times."
"If I drink again, I'll get divorced."
"However,"
"the very next day, my dad drank again."
- Oh, no. - "Honey!"
"This isn't working. Either I'll kill you and then myself,"
"or we'll get divorced. Choose one."
"Now, my mom and dad are on the verge of divorce."
"Please help me stop my dad from drinking."
- My goodness. - That's all.
Cheetah, is there anyone around you who has bad drinking habits?
In fact, I can relate to this story.
My family was like hers.
- Your dad was like him? - Yes.
He passed away though.
When he comes home drunk,
I saw him fighting with my mom.
I hated it when he acted like that.
But if I think about it now,
I think my dad was very lonely.
- Your dad was? - Yes.
Had you known this makeup style and hairstyle,
- your dad would've been daunted. - Right.
You didn't dye your hair back then, right?
- And mid-length hair. - I had long, straight hair.
When I was between 5 and 6...
Whenever my parents had a fight, I slept between them...
because I'm their youngest child,
- and they adored me very much. - You're the youngest child.
I acted cute, so they would stop fighting.
I thought that would make them feel better.
But in fact,
I shouldn't have been there.
I was interfering with them.
They didn't have time to make up because of you.
All right. Their 13-year-old daughter...
mustered the courage to come here.
- Please come out. - She'll be very excited.
(She's worried her parents might get divorced because of her dad!)
(Jung Yoon Seo)
(JB and Jin Young escort her very carefully.)
Welcome.
How much does your dad drink to make you come here?
I think alcohol was my dad's enemy in his past life.
He goes out to drink...
5 or 6 days a week.
Since he drinks a lot,
I call him at night...
and ask where he is. Then he says...
he'll come home right away,
but he comes home after 1am.
- I bet he can't leave early. - Right.
- Is it noisy around your dad? - Yes.
I hear the tambourine, it's noisy.
(What?)
- Tambourine? - Tambourine?
- He must've been in a karaoke. - Oh, I see.
- Karaoke. - The problem is...
that when he comes home,
he doesn't wash up and go to bed immediately.
If my mom, my little sister, and I are sleeping,
he taps our heads with his foot.
(He hits their head with his foot.)
(It's the worst drinking habit.)
(I think it's a worry.)
- Does he give you a hard time? - Yes.
- He hit your head? - He hit your head with his foot?
Yes. He tells me to wake up. If I don't get up,
he says, "Didn't you hear me?"
He yells at me and everything.
- He also speaks like an alien. - "An alien"?
- He talks gibberish? - Yes.
What time does he usually come home?
He usually comes home after 1am.
I think it's a little past 1:15am.
- 1:15am? I see. - She's being specific.
- 1:15am. - It's hard to remember accurately.
And he can't remember anything the next day?
- He can't. As he can't remember, - I see.
I can't have a conversation with him about the matter.
He can't speak clearly, so I can't understand what he says.
My mom got really angry...
and told him to write a written promise.
He promised he'd get divorced if he didn't quit drinking.
But it seemed like he didn't mean to keep his promise...
- because he drank the next day. - The very next day?
(Angry)
- Yes. - The next day?
Since he wrote a written promise,
did you expect him not to drink for a few days?
Yes. Of course I did.
But he broke the promise and came home drunk.
- How did you feel then? - It made me think if he was my dad.
It made me wonder why he made a promise...
- in the first place. - Right.
She must be confused.
Because these situations kept repeating,
you became worried that your parents...
might get a divorce. Is that why you wrote to us?
Yes. My parents recently had a fight in the kitchen.
They broke plates and shouted that they would kill each other.
It was a big fight.
My goodness. Was he drunk as usual?
Yes. My mom asked him...
why he doesn't respect her...
and acts so selfish.
They always fight like that.
Sometimes, I see my mom cry.
- You must've felt bad. - Yes.
I felt like crying with her.
My goodness.
Of course. She must've been so scared.
- Were you asleep? - It's good that you're here.
- Well done. - We need to meet her dad.
We do.
Let's meet her dad. Hello.
Hello.
(Who is her dad, who drinks every day?)
(People don't clap for him.)
Look at her.
People don't even want to clap for him.
Yes.
How did you feel when you found out that your daughter...
applied to be on Hello and actually got picked to be here?
I asked her why she sent her story when it's not even a big deal.
I thought it was ridiculous.
What do you mean it's not a big deal?
- My gosh. - Calm down.
- Don't throw anything. - Did you think...
it wasn't a worry for your daughter?
It's what all breadwinners do for their career.
Because I work in construction,
I can't meet up with guys...
and just go for coffee.
So in a week, I drink about 7 to 8 times.
(His liver is slaving every day.)
How much can you drink?
I can't drink a lot.
I can only drink three bottles of soju.
I mix one bottle with beer.
That's a lot.
- He said he can't drink a lot. - I drink beer after that.
I black out afterwards, so I don't know how much I drink.
(He can't believe it.)
Why do you come home and kick their heads?
Why do you bully your family?
I don't remember it.
- That's the problem. - That's the problem.
- You don't even remember that. - Have it occurred to you that...
not remembering things is wrong?
I pay a lot of money to drink.
What's the point if I remember everything?
- Sir. - How dare you talk that way?
If I did something bad when I was drunk,
people who I drank with...
would've called me the next morning.
But I have never gotten an angry call from them.
Your family tells you about what you did when you were drunk.
Do you think there's no way you could've done that?
Or do you pretend not to remember because you are embarrassed?
- Tell us honestly. - Or is it both?
Are you saying you didn't do anything bad...
because you are not getting angry calls?
- Is that what you are saying? - Yes.
- Then we wonder... - Others can simply not see you.
Why on earth did you write those written promises?
- Right. - You must've felt bad.
I wrote it because I was told to.
We would've gotten into a fight if I didn't write it.
- That's the problem. - Did you write it...
only to get away from that situation?
Yes. I had to write a written promise.
(Why is he so shameless?)
Her mother must've been struggling the most.
How do you feel, ma'am?
One day before my daughter turned one,
I went to pick up my drunk husband.
She was crying, so I told him to make her sit up.
He said, "Okay."
But she wouldn't stop crying.
So I checked her.
It turned out her head was beside his feet.
Her legs were next to his chest.
- Did he hold her upside-down? - She was holding her upside-down.
My goodness. He wasn't himself.
Yes. She kept crying...
because all the blood was rushing to her head.
I didn't know that situation was going to persist until now.
You must remember that.
You remember it, don't you? It's a big incident.
I remember it slightly.
He's trying to get out of it again.
He knows only because I told her.
I know it because she told me. But I remember her shouting...
"Honey!" in the car.
(He just keeps trying to get out of it.)
You must've been really drunk.
Have you had a big fight recently?
Yes. Recently, I got into a car accident.
The tire became flat, and the foothold got shattered.
I called my husband of course.
I thought he'd come soon, but he didn't come even after an hour.
I kept waiting,
- but he wouldn't come. - That's really bad.
So I called him.
And he said, "Right! You got into an accident. I forgot."
He said that.
In the end, he didn't show up.
- He didn't come? - He didn't come.
How bad did you feel?
Next day, I told him to choose.
I told him to choose between alcohol and me.
He said he would choose to quit drinking...
- and wrote another written promise. - Another written promise.
I thought he wouldn't drink for at least a few days.
That night, I went out to eat with my children.
But it suddenly started raining a lot. We didn't drive there,
so I asked him if he could pick us up.
He said he would come and get us.
So we waited for him.
We waited and waited.
- He didn't come? - He didn't come.
He should've just said that he couldn't come.
Why does he make them expect him to come?
Especially when his wife got into an accident,
don't other husbands rush to their wife's side?
- Of course. - Yes.
She got into an accident while I was drinking.
She should've called 911. Why would she call me?
(They can't believe what they heard.)
911 could get to her faster.
- I didn't hear it wrong, did I? - Even if she called 911 first...
Even if she called 911 first,
shouldn't you rush to her?
What's the point of me rushing to her...
- when I'm drunk? - Weren't you worried about her?
911 would be more helpful to her.
(Drinking always comes first.)
When your friends asked what the call was about,
you must've told them your wife had gotten into an accident.
Didn't your friends tell you to hurry to her?
How can I tell them such a think when we're drinking?
- It's... - What?
(That isn't a time to be considerate to them.)
When they were out, it suddenly started raining hard.
- You remember that day, right? - I remember that day.
She could've just gotten an umbrella and walked home.
She shouldn't have asked a drinking person to come and pick her up.
(The way he thinks is shocking.)
She's not a child.
When she called, you should've told her...
that you were in the middle of drinking...
and that she should get a cab.
I told her that I would come. But while drinking,
- I forgot. - Why didn't you just tell her...
that you weren't coming?
"I can't go. I am drinking."
- "So just..." - She sympathizes with his wife.
Yes. I am so upset. What do I do?
- Right. Drink some water. - Yes.
- Drink some water. - She thinks...
she's being forgotten because of alcohol.
What do you think about that?
I want to treat her better,
but as someone working...
Who doesn't work?
You have your family and your drinking buddies.
Who is more important to you?
Of course my family is more important.
- But I think... - My family is always there.
You seem to value your friends more.
- "My family is always there." - I say that because...
- Right? - You gave them written promises.
The plans you make with your friends are also promises.
You don't fulfill your promise to your family,
and yet you always show up for drinks with your friends.
Doesn't it mean you value your friends more than your family?
The written promise doesn't say what day I won't drink.
(He becomes speechless.)
Writing a written promise doesn't mean...
I can't go out and meet people.
But you can choose not to drink.
- You made a promise. - It's not possible to not drink.
- It's an extension of work. - It's an extension of work.
- Yes. - It's what you have to do.
I have to make a living.
And that's just how my industry works.
(How should we talk to him?)
When your dad is home sober,
is he domestic?
No.
Whenever I ask him to go outside or go to a movie,
he doesn't even pretend to listen.
He only looks at his phone and lies down on the bed.
Have you been on a family trip with your dad?
We went to a waterpark.
He just entered the park with us.
We played by ourselves. After we played,
we had to find him through a broadcast.
Where was he?
- He was in the shade. - Where was he?
He was sleeping in the shade.
Was he sleeping in the shade?
He was just an admission staff.
Were there things you want to do with him...
at the waterpark?
He never plays with us wherever we go,
so I didn't have any expectations.
You didn't expect anything.
Say everything...
you've been keeping in the deepest part of you.
Several years ago, I had an entrance ceremony for school.
Other kids' dads all came.
But my dad didn't come.
We had about four talent shows.
But he came only once.
My goodness.
- Did he come only once? - How about for your sister?
- She once suffered from pneumonia. - Pneumonia.
She was suddenly rushed to a hospital at night.
At the time, he was out drinking.
So my mom, my sister, and I went to the hospital by ourselves.
Shouldn't you be there for them when they are ill...
and for important occasions?
Because I work, it's very hard for me to make time.
If my wife has time, she can go.
Then when should a dad be there for his kids?
At which moment?
When it's a real emergency.
But you weren't there for them when there was an emergency.
- Your second daughter was sick. - Your wife got into an accident.
Tell us your definition of an emergency situation.
When should you be there for them?
When they are under threat.
- Under threat? - Yes.
(What?)
That's a very dangerous situation.
A lot of other people can help them in that situation.
But it's always a talent show or a field day.
If your daughter knew...
how much you loved her,
she would've understood that you are sometimes too busy.
But even when you have time,
you never make time for her or care about her.
And that makes her feel incredibly sad.
I don't think I did something terrible though.
- All right. - That's what you've been doing.
(Is alcohol all he cares about?)
When were the times he wasn't there when you needed him?
I had a miscarriage when I was pregnant for the third time.
I went to a hospital and booked a date for the surgery.
It happened to be the day his friends were coming from Seoul.
He told me this.
"This is not even an important surgery."
What?
(What will we do with him?)
"And it won't take a long time."
He asked if I could go alone.
So I went there alone...
and came home alone.
(She got a surgery alone and went home alone.)
As a woman, I felt so hurt.
That surgery is as tough as giving birth.
It's painful.
You should've been there for her.
It's not so much of the pain in the body.
Her heart must have been broken.
You should've been there to comfort her.
The child they conceived together...
had died.
That's a very grave matter.
My friends and I...
had booked a guesthouse a month earlier.
They were coming from other cities, so they needed me.
Are your friends stupid?
But if you had explained to your friends,
I'm sure they would have understood.
I never thought about that.
- You never told them? - No.
- It seems so. - Let me ask you again.
What's more important, your family or friends?
(Family or friends?)
Definitely my family.
He's all talk.
But when your wife had a miscarriage,
why did you choose your friends over her?
- I wanted to keep my promise. - You wanted to keep your promise.
- But... - Then what about the agreement?
(My blood pressure is going up.)
During the last Asian Games,
our soccer team won the gold medal, right?
The goalkeeper, Jo Hyeon Woo, got injured.
Apparently, Coach Kim Hak Bum told him,
"Just by standing there, you give energy to the rest of the team."
That would raise his self-esteem so much.
A dad is supposed to be like that too.
Just by being there, dads can give energy to their children.
They are someone that can be relied on, like a big mountain.
You shouldn't think that your family doesn't need you.
Please think about it.
Let's talk to the dad's friend.
It was hard to persuade him to come on the show.
I don't want to be friends with him anymore.
(I don't want to be friends with him anymore.)
I'm his friend, Choi Gang Nam.
I didn't know they fight so much...
in front of their kids.
Does Yoon Seo's dad usually...
initiate get-togethers?
I think business accounts for only 30 percent of the reason.
70 percent of it is just him wanting to drink.
He seems to enjoy drinking a lot.
Yes. He just likes to drink.
Does he bother others when he's drunk?
Once, I was at home and got a call from him.
He said, "A fortune teller told me to be nice to people around me."
"I'll be a really good friend to you from now on."
Right after that, he started crying.
- Again? - Did you call him the next day?
"You did this last night. What were you thinking?"
I did, and he said he doesn't remember.
He had no memory of it.
You said you'd reflect on yourself if someone calls you the next day.
You said you never get any calls, which is why you don't know.
- I did. - But your friend called you.
What's the big deal if I cried once while I was drunk?
But it happened more than once.
You seem to be so generous with yourself.
You're extremely generous with yourself.
(Grow up, will you?)
Next to you... You did a great job raising your son.
- He looks so mature. - He's not my son.
- He's not? - No.
- He's not your son? - No.
- That's absurd. - You don't know him?
Who is the boy?
He lives on the first floor.
- He's just a neighbor? - He lives on the first floor?
He just lives on the first floor of the same building.
He must have just followed to see the broadcasting station.
But he must have a lot to say.
- Please introduce yourself. - What's your name?
- I'm 5th grader, Kim Tae Hyung. - 5th grade?
He's very big.
Did you just follow them to see the broadcasting station?
Yoon Seo is suffering so much. I'm here to tell you what I saw.
(He's a witness.)
- He's a witness. - Tell us.
He's a witness.
I once went over to their place.
Yoon Seo's dad came to me, drunk.
He suddenly tickled me.
He usually doesn't do that, so I was very surprised.
It drives you crazy.
If you don't want to laugh and someone keeps tickling you...
If he usually doesn't do that...
"Why is he doing this to me?"
Anything else?
I was on my way home from academy by bike.
Yoon Seo and her dad were fighting...
because he broke his promise.
Yoon Seo's mom was talking to her husband on the phone.
She was angry that he was drinking again and called him an alcoholic.
- You witnessed many things. - Right.
He knows everything.
And he's just a neighbor.
I want Yoon Seo's dad to see a doctor...
and start a rehab program.
What is your dad like?
He has liver problems. He can't drink at all.
I see.
He sounds so mature.
Do you think you'll drink when you grow up?
I don't think I will.
Are you going to be nice to your future wife?
- Yes. - Are you going to come home early?
Yes.
Then...
(We get it.)
All right.
When our kids see me and my wife fight,
my pride gets hurt.
I know I do many things wrong.
But she could talk about it...
when our kids are not there.
I'm not home all the time.
I have a job too.
- You work? - Yes.
I work, do the house chores, and take care of the kids.
All I say to my husband is that he should drink less.
But he drinks every single day.
Also, apart from drinking,
- he keeps criticizing my looks. - What?
"You're so ugly. I don't want to show you to anyone."
"Who would want to look at you?"
He also adds, "I'm being honest because I'm drunk."
He has all the problems.
When I misunderstand what he says, he tells me,
"You don't even understand what I say. This is why we can't talk."
- "You're so stupid." - He looks down on you.
When he says that,
I couldn't say, "Okay. You're right."
Why would you criticize your wife's looks?
I don't want her to get fat like a pig.
(Angry)
What?
I'll deal with him.
What did you just say?
(I'll teach you a lesson.)
(Innocent)
You want to be respected by your wife.
Why don't you respect your wife?
I respect her.
What about the things you say to her?
I'm just bad at expressing it, but I respect her a lot.
"You have to both work and take care of the kids."
"It must be so hard." Do you ever say that to her?
He says, "Do I really have to say it?"
(They don't respect each other.)
(Please stop fighting.)
Let's talk to their second daughter.
Do your mom and dad fight a lot?
Yes.
Do you like your dad?
He's bad.
- He's bad? - Why?
He treats my mom, my sister, and me badly.
What do you mean?
He hits my head...
and tells me I'm ugly.
- He says that to his daughter too? - He said that to you?
(Nodding)
Your dad is a liar.
We think you're so pretty.
You're really pretty. Become an actress when you grow up.
(Smiling)
- She's so cute. - She's so cute.
You said your parents fight a lot.
My mom does this...
and says she wants to breathe. She says she's going to die...
when they fight.
How does that make you feel when you hear that?
- It makes me sad. - It makes you sad.
My mom often says she wants to get a divorce.
It makes me sad.
- Do you hate it? - Yes.
- Does it scare you? - Yes.
- She's only in third grade. - Right.
How can a third-grader...
say such things?
- I don't understand. - The dad has been bad.
Is there anything you want to ask of your dad?
You can say anything.
I want him to quit drinking and stop bullying us.
She's not asking him to play with her.
She wants him to stop bullying her. What is this?
There's something that really breaks my heart.
When I come home and prepare dinner,
my second daughter calls her dad.
She asks him, "Dad, where are you?"
And then she tells me, "Dad is drinking again. Just divorce him."
"That would be better." She brings it up first.
What is this?
(Every time their parents fight...)
How did you feel, Yoon Seo?
- I wanted to cry too. - Goodness.
(The kids are frightened.)
- Right. - Imagine how scary it is.
It was a good idea to come on this show.
[VIU Ver] E381 Hello Counselor "Two Fathers Who are Completely Different" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
How do you feel after listening to your daughter?
If I was her dad and heard something like that...
This is not the first time I've heard it.
(This isn't the first time.)
Then how can you still drink?
It really breaks my heart.
It's unbelievable.
Your second daughter is...
just as scared as your first daughter that...
- her mom and dad will get divorced. - Of course.
- Of course. - But she knows...
if her mom says that, it might really happen.
That's why she says it herself...
so that her mom won't say it.
How can a 10-year-old think like that and do such a thing?
It breaks my heart even though I'm just a stranger.
(Their dad doesn't take their worries seriously.)
- Even if you like to drink... - Has your second daughter...
ever expressed such thoughts to you?
- Yes. A few days ago. - What did she say?
She asked me, "Do you know how scared I get..."
"whenever you and Dad fight?"
She said dealing with that fear is the worst part.
- She said that to you? - Gosh.
(At her age, she should just be smiling and happy.)
(What did the kids do wrong?)
What did the kids do wrong? Honestly.
Has she ever said that to her dad?
That it scares her when her mom and dad fight.
She hasn't.
- This is the first time? - I have.
- She has. - You've said it to your dad?
- She's crying. - What did he say?
Did he say sorry?
- No. - Sir.
You can't stop lying. You must be embarrassed.
It's not our purpose...
to have everyone hate you.
We just want your family to change...
- and become happy. - Of course.
- We want you to be happy. - That's what Yoon Seo wants too.
I want to change, but it's not that easy.
You're being completely controlled by alcohol.
You're a slave to alcohol.
My family's situation was similar.
In the end, my parents got divorced.
I live with my mom and my stepdad now.
When parents fight,
kids don't know why, so they become careful.
- Right. - They get scared.
It has a huge impact on children.
- It does. - Yes.
I want to ask her this.
Are there times when your parents...
look happy and in love?
When we went to a movie with my aunt and uncle,
they laughed. That's when they looked the happiest.
When she was talking, she couldn't stop smiling.
Thinking about that time makes you happy, doesn't it?
- When was that? - When was that?
We go to a movie on Chuseok and Lunar New Year.
- Then... - Just twice a year then?
Do you want every day to be like Chuseok and Lunar New Year?
Yes.
(She wants every day to be like a holiday.)
Can you tell us what you really want from them?
I want them to spend time with us at least 2 to 3 times a month.
I want him to drink in moderation.
I no longer want to see them fighting in front of us.
(She doesn't want to see her parents fight.)
Say something to your little sister too.
- Tell her it's hard for you too. - I will protect you.
- Goodness. - Oh, my.
(She says she will protect her little sister.)
Even if you drink every day,
you have to drink only to the point of not doing harm to your family.
You should promise us that. What do you say?
I won't drink too much. Every time I drink,
I will call you and drink less.
(She doesn't show any reactions.)
Is he someone who keeps his promise?
(Shaking her head)
She has no trust in him.
I can't say that I won't...
drink at all.
I will try my best to drink less.
Will you prove it to them?
I will do my best.
(Please keep your promise this time.)
All right. Jin Young, please vote first.
Is this a worry or not?
I want him to think about what's more important.
I think it's a very big worry.
I want her father to think hard about this.
I think it's a big worry.
Press the button.
Like someone said earlier, the drinking is not the problem.
I think it's a serious problem...
that the children are feeling anxious and getting hurt.
I think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop. - Stop.
Show us how many votes he got.
(The result)
The last digit is 7.
How many votes did he get out of 200?
- 97. - 97.
- 97. - No way.
- 97. - 157.
That's a lot.
Well done, darling.
"The Sorrow of Superman".
The father of the first guest...
must be perplexed right now.
I hope you will pay your attention to this story.
"Hello. I am a father of 2 girls who are 14 and 7 years old."
"My daughters call me 'Superman'."
"Every day, I fix them breakfast. I do house chores."
"I work too."
"I do everything."
When will he have time to drink?
This is the exact opposite situation.
When I feel very tired and take a nap,
my daughters come and kick my head.
(That feels good.)
Was it really there?
It's an ad-lib.
You surprised me there.
He's so witty.
"Do I do everything alone?"
"Yes. I do everything alone."
"I am actually a single dad,"
"who is raising two daughters by himself."
"As a man, raising two daughters..."
"can become tricky at times."
"Dad, I have to buy sanitary pads."
"Right. Right. Wait."
"Which one are you supposed to buy?"
"I will go out and buy it."
"But... 'My goodness. Look at that man.'"
"Why is that man standing in front of sanitary pads?"
"It's not easy because I get too conscious."
"I try my best..."
"not to let the girls feel their mother's absence."
"But my second daughter said this."
"Dad, we are having a children's song festival,"
"and the teacher told me to bring my mom."
- Oh, dear. - "There are..."
"things that I just can't do."
This is what upsets me the most.
"Hey, why does your dad always take you to school?"
"Well, that's..."
"I feel so bad for her."
"It's people's prejudiced views on my daughters."
- "This is the hardest thing." - This is terrible.
"Please help my children..."
"live in the world without prejudice."
Welcome.
(We will help you.)
It's not an easy matter, is it?
- We can already tell. - From what we've heard,
I think he's doing a good job.
I know. He sounds like a devoted dad.
- I think he's amazing. - Right?
- He's got two daughters. - He takes care of them by himself.
While reading the story,
I felt bad.
Koreans tend to think loudly.
"Why is that man standing in front of sanitary pads?"
- Why would you say that? - Right.
- I know. - That's what hurts him.
- They would say that. - You have two children.
- Yes. - To give his wife a day off,
he took care of his kids all day, and he said it was really hard.
This is...
If you have never done it, you can't understand.
You know what you should do.
I got really exhausted that day.
But at the end of the day, my son said this to me.
"I feel so happy that you spent time with us and bought us gifts."
- That made the fatigue go away. - Really?
- Did that melt your heart? - Yes. It melted.
And he's been doing that all along.
- Think about that. - And he even works.
He is really a Superman.
Where can I find a man like you?
You can't find one now.
I am sold out.
Because he's got two daughters,
he must get more worried as they grow up.
Please come on out, sir.
(Who is the single dad who is raising two daughters?)
(The real Superman is here.)
He looks like a good man.
- He looks strong. - Yes.
(Kim Ki Hyung)
How did you end up raising two daughters alone?
My 1st daughter is 14, and my 2nd daughter is 7.
Their mother decided not to see them anymore,
and I've been raising them alone for three years.
It's really tough.
I work from 2pm to 8pm.
I have to fix them breakfast.
I drop off both girls at their schools.
I then go back home and clean up.
Because I work until 8pm, I can't feed them dinner.
- So I make dinner in advance. - You prepare it for them?
- The problem is... - He's amazing.
that their palates are different.
My first daughter wants to eat something spicy,
but my second daughter wants something mild.
So I prepare two kinds of one dish.
I make one with pepper sauce and the other one with soy sauce.
You even care about their palates.
(He's not the best cook, but he cooks with love.)
That led me to wonder...
how other single parents live.
It turns out most single parents in Korea...
get help from their parents or relatives.
But my parents live in Canada.
- So it's all me. - It's all you.
- You are all alone. - I am all alone.
If you go home that early to take care of the girls,
when will you have time to socialize with people?
- Right. - How will you build your career?
What about your career?
Are you going to miss the important thing?
Socializing is very important.
- He's going to be outcast. - Yes.
Tell us. When do you socialize?
- Don't you meet your friends? - I can't do it.
You gave that up for your children. Right?
But your family is always there.
They are always just at home. Are they that important?
They will just grow by themselves.
Of course.
Your kids grow up on your own.
Stop it.
You must be quite used to it now.
But nevertheless, when is it the toughest?
It's fine if my body is tired.
But prejudice is the hardest to deal with.
I used to run a private tutoring school.
After the divorce,
the rumor spread that it was all my fault.
In fact, it was the exact opposite of that.
I lost all my students.
But I was the most worried about my children being hurt.
They might be considered as the children...
of an immoral man.
I was afraid of them getting more hurt...
when they hear it.
So we couldn't stay in Korea at the time.
- You left and came back. - Did you...
Yes.
(They went abroad to avoid people.)
Were the children actually affected by the prejudice?
My first daughter once asked me this.
"Dad, can I invite my friends home?"
She asked me that.
And I said, "Yes, You can."
"But I think their mothers should be informed..."
"that I am a single dad. If they are fine with it, I am okay with it."
- That's understandable. - Right.
But nobody called back.
Something happened to my second child too.
My second child makes a promise with her friends...
to go to a kids' cafe every weekend.
Then the parents ask for my number.
When I give them my number,
I wait for their call, but they never call me.
Why do they do this?
Is it just because he's a single dad?
They must feel uncomfortable.
If you think carefully,
- it's understandable... - Right.
- why they would do that. - Right.
Mothers always have a group chat...
- Right. - and share photos of the children.
- But it's uncomfortable for them... - Right.
- to talk to a father of a child. - Right.
You must understand the mothers well, Sung Eun.
When he mentioned the group chat, I was reminded of...
- a mothers' club I am a member of. - Is there such a club?
If a father of one of the children wants to join us,
- we would become hesitant. - It's a sensitive issue.
I think we would be uncomfortable.
(I understand.)
Do your daughters understand...
that their mother is absent?
My first child understands clearly because she went through it.
Fortunately, my second child doesn't look for her mom.
But people around her keep reminding her of it.
- And that's really tough. - That's really sad.
I took her to the place where she gets the bus to her school.
And the children asked, "Why does your dad always bring you?"
"Where is your mom?" When I saw her being flustered,
I felt so heartbroken. That's why...
even if it's tiring, I drop her off at the school.
I do it so that she will hear these things less.
When I read home correspondences, my heart breaks.
The homework is "Playing with Mom".
"Ask Mom something."
That's the homework.
- That's the homework? - Yes.
- Is it true, Sung Eun? - It's true.
It could say, "Do this with your parents."
- Right. - That's right.
It always mentions...
- doing something with your mom. - In Korea,
dads don't play with children because they are busy.
People don't expect dads to do anything.
- Everything mentions moms... - That's right.
- because it's more typical. - That's right.
Those assignments should mention the parents...
- from now on. - That would be nice.
I was worried that the prejudice...
would hurt my children.
That's why I sent my worry. If I talk about it on TV,
people's prejudice might disappear.
- You made the right choice. - You are cool.
There must be a lot of people...
- who are in the same situation. - That's right.
Let's meet the daughters...
he cherishes. Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
Hello.
They're so cute and pretty.
- Did you know about his worry? - The older daughter.
I didn't know that it was a serious worry for him.
Since I experienced it with him,
I did have an idea.
Little one, your turn will come. Put down the microphone.
I feel like I should ask a question right away.
Tell us your name. What's your name?
- Kim E Eun. - E Eun.
- We will ask you a question later. - Okay.
- How cute! - She is pretty.
There was a talk about a pajama party.
How did you feel when you couldn't invite your friends?
I was disappointed.
I wanted to show my space to my friends,
but my dad rejected the idea.
I didn't know that the parents rejected the invitation.
- You didn't know. - Did you find out just now?
Yes. I didn't know the prejudice ran so deep.
- I am disappointed. - I see.
Do you struggle at times because of these prejudices?
Yes. When the three of us go out, people think I am the mom.
People suddenly go, "Your wife is very young."
- Why? - That's ridiculous.
Then I become flustered.
People think that an ideal family has...
a mom and a dad.
(People mistaken her for the mom.)
There was time when the three of us went to Canada together.
We got caught at Immigration.
- Why? - Why?
They thought my dad was running away with us.
They wanted to see the family register,
but we didn't have it. The police took me aside...
and asked when I saw my mom last,
and if my dad treats me well.
They let us go only after that.
I wonder if they would've asked that if we had been with our mom.
I couldn't help but think that.
- Canada has prejudices. - Canada has problems.
(It was hurtful.)
- The younger daughter. - It's your turn.
- It's your turn. - Do you know...
why you are here today?
- No. - You don't know.
- How cute! - Do you know where you are?
I sincerely apologize.
E Eun, what do you take to go to kindergarten?
- My dad's car. - Your dad drives you.
Do your friends ask you why your dad drops you off?
Yes, they do.
How did you feel?
I was very surprised.
- Why were you surprised? - Why?
- They asked me suddenly. - They asked you suddenly.
You should ask, "Why does your mom drop you off?"
(Ask them the same question.)
(He has a point.)
Let's practice. Why does your dad drop you off?
My dad loves me that much.
How cool!
It's touching.
I am close to tears.
E Eun, are you jealous of your friends...
- because their moms drop them off? - No.
- You aren't jealous at all. - No.
Their dad gives them so much love...
- that they don't feel the void. - It shows on their faces.
They don't feel the void.
They are happy.
I heard that you will attend a children's song festival.
- Yes. - Really? What will you sing?
- "A Tree's Song". - "A Tree's Song"?
Would you sing a bit of the song?
We don't know the song.
Is that okay?
Let's begin.
In 1, 2, 3, 4.
(The weather is nice today)
(The sun shines brightly)
(She is good.)
(The tree lets me hear it)
(Good job.)
The dad of the first worry, have your daughters sung you a song?
(Have your daughters sung you a song?)
- Tell us. - Never.
- Never? I bet he doesn't remember. - I bet he doesn't remember.
I bet his daughters have sung for him.
They are going, "I have sung for you!"
- They have sung for you! - They did!
The two daughters and their dad...
have no problem.
- However, people's looks... - People's looks.
- and prejudice... - Prejudice.
- That's what is hard, right? - Right.
People say, "A dad can't do this. A man can't do this."
Because I hate hearing those words,
I make sure my daughters wear a different outfit every day.
Gym clothes, school uniforms, swimsuits, aprons,
- and hats... I prepare everything. - You need so many things.
I hate making a single mistake.
I try to prepare everything.
I bet you do a better job than most moms.
- Moms forget all the time. - That's right.
When other moms forget,
I become ecstatic.
(I become ecstatic.)
My goodness.
(He is incredible.)
You know that people worry...
because you have a single parent, right?
A lot of people think it's different and bad.
"If you only have a dad,"
"who does the household chores?" People become curious.
It happens often.
You help your dad a lot, right?
The thing is, I don't do much.
My dad does everything.
- He does everything. - That's right.
He doesn't want his daughters to do those chores.
He doesn't want them to feel the void.
It's impressive.
I bet some friends don't know about your situation.
- You must make new friends. - Yes.
They ask, "Why do you only talk about your dad?"
Then I tell them, "I like my dad more."
I simply say that.
Once this episode airs,
even the friends who didn't know will know.
I think it will take some weight off my shoulders,
- so I'm not worried. - She's mature.
- She is so mature. - She's very mature.
You raised your daughters so well.
"I am not wrong. They are wrong."
"I will say that it is so."
- I love her mindset. - That's right.
- It's amazing. - Yes.
It would have been easier for you to raise boys.
There are worries you have from raising girls, right?
I was folding clothes...
when I saw shabby and small panties.
They belonged to my older daughter.
(The older daughter's shabby and small underwear)
I was in tears.
I went to the underwear section at the supermarket...
and bought a lot of underwear without knowing anything.
There is another story.
One morning,
I saw that her bed was wet with blood.
I hadn't bought her a proper sanitary pad.
She didn't know what to do either.
- She was in middle school. - Yes.
I told her I'll go and get her some,
but I didn't know what to buy. Wings, small, medium, large,
- 56, 40... - Let's stop right there.
Don't go into the details.
- You are an expert. - Don't go into the details.
Now, when I go to the supermarket,
I look at underwear. I look at the sizes...
and buy things in advance because she doesn't say anything.
I wish she would tell me what she needs,
but she doesn't say anything because she's embarrassed.
When I had my period for the first time,
I couldn't tell my dad about it.
I took care of it thanks to my grandma...
in Canada. However, things do get inconvenient.
That's right.
You could have asked your dad to get new underwear.
Why didn't you ask him?
I felt bad about asking him to do that for me.
- My goodness. - My goodness.
That's why...
Is there anyone you can go for advice...
other than your grandma in Canada?
Do you have any relatives...
- like aunts? - We don't have anyone.
I don't have a sister. I don't know whom to ask.
When you wait for the kindergarten bus,
you meet other moms.
- When you say hello, - I do the same.
- they love it. - That's right.
I am like a strange man to them.
I don't know how they will take it.
You aren't a strange man. You are a fellow parent.
- You are a fellow parent. - You aren't a strange man.
Things will be easier from now on.
"Hello, I am the single dad who was on Hello."
- You can say that. - It will be easier.
- You need to stop worrying. - That's right.
I will introduce you to a nice web community.
Contact me if you need anything.
Then later on he'll get a message saying, "Stop calling my wife."
"From Jung Jo Gook."
(Stop calling my wife.)
Until you get such a message, you can ask her comfortably.
(Staring)
- What? - What is it,
you strange man?
I sometimes think of you as a strange man as well.
(I sometimes think of you as a strange man as well.)
(I can't believe him.)
A strange man.
Since you are here,
you should ask any questions you have.
It's like a web community meeting.
- That's good. - You can relax.
- What are you curious about? - I'm most curious about...
things that girls talk to their moms about, like boyfriends.
I listen to my children like a friend.
Then they go, "Don't tell Dad."
"I am only going to tell you." It makes me feel good.
If you open up your mind,
your daughter will tell you everything.
I don't want to set a curfew that is too strict.
I think 9pm or 10pm is appropriate.
I think 2am or 3am is fine.
I personally think that way...
because at my age,
I need to stay out late for something romantic to happen.
It's different for her because she is in middle school.
- The two of you should talk... - That's right.
and find the middle ground.
Then she will respect the rules you come up with together.
Your older daughter's face already turned red.
Do you have a boyfriend?
- No, I don't. - I see.
- I heard your voice quiver. - Me neither.
(Me neither.)
It's the same for you.
- The older daughter's friend. - Hello.
Hi!
Hello.
- Hello. - Are you her best friend?
Yes. We have been friends since we were five years old.
- You are best friends. - Yes.
She's quiet, and she gets good grades.
She has a lot of friends.
She was the classroom president in the first semester.
(She has leadership.)
Did you know about her situation ever since you were little?
I found out for the first time last year.
My parents had a fight,
so I told her about it. E Ji said,
"My parents got a divorce."
"However, I endured and came this far."
"Cheer up."
- She comforted me. - She is a good friend.
Since E Ji is your best friend,
don't you feel bad that you're the only one with a boyfriend?
That came out of nowhere.
(Tell me the truth.)
I don't have a boyfriend, but...
(She takes the bait.)
Does E Ji have a boyfriend?
(She must have a boyfriend.)
Does E Ji have a boyfriend?
Her voice quivered!
Did you promise E Ji not to say anything?
(Did they plan ahead?)
I tell her when I get a boyfriend.
She always tells me after it happens.
(She always tells me after it happens.)
(She acts first and talks later.)
"After it happens"?
- "After it happens"? - How many boys have she dated?
Give us an example.
(She is in a daze.)
What happens?
Well...
Can I tell them?
You already told us everything.
You already said everything. Just continue.
Don't tell them.
- No? - It would be the best.
Okay.
Did you break up? Is the relationship ongoing?
No, I don't have a boyfriend.
She had a boyfriend.
(She throws a bomb to her friend.)
You had one, too!
- "You had one, too!" - My goodness.
You had one, too!
(Everyone is laughing but him.)
(My daughter... Let me cry for a second.)
Ki Hyung's acquaintance is here as well.
- Hello. - Hello.
(They are in the same badminton club.)
I have known him for a little over two years.
He wants to attend the club meeting often,
but he goes,
"E Eun woke up at night and asked me to play with me."
- "I can't go." - "E Ji is sick,"
"so I took her to the hospital at night."
He can't come half of the times.
Even if he comes,
- he leaves after an hour. - He always leaves first.
Maybe his focus is on his children?
That's right. It's not a maybe.
As you have heard,
his biggest worry is,
"What will I cook for my children?"
Even families with both parents dine out.
- They order in too. - Or they have a quick meal.
It happens,
but he doesn't want to do that.
He is only satisfied...
when the children eat home-cooked meals.
It's very hard to do that.
He is cool.
Sometimes, he goes out when I am asleep.
When that happens, my sister wakes up and calls him.
- She calls her dad. - Even when it isn't an emergency,
he runs over.
When that happens, I feel bad about ruining my dad's free time.
You feel bad.
I feel like it happens...
because I can't take good care of my sister.
- This is... - She is so caring.
- They are so caring. - They are so caring.
They are a caring family.
It's like a battle of who can be more caring.
- Seriously. - They are so caring.
The older daughter says that because she is in middle school.
The younger daughter must be attached to you.
I say she's glues to me.
She always touches my armpit.
(She always touches my armpit.)
(I love his armpit.)
She mouth hangs open.
- She is obsessed. - Yes.
She touches it like it's the most natural thing.
She does it in an elevator and at a restaurant.
She just does this.
You must take good care of it.
I don't know. She kisses it sometimes.
- Does she kiss your armpit? - Yes.
She will cry a river if you wax your armpit.
She will hate it.
"Where did the hair go?"
What do you like about your dad's armpit?
I like it because it's rough.
You like it because it's rough.
- She likes the texture. - That's right.
Can't you sleep when you don't touch his armpit?
I can sleep sometimes.
- I see. - Does it put you at ease?
- Yes. - How about E Ji's armpit?
- "E Ji's armpit isn't rough." - E Ji's armpit...
doesn't have much hair.
She doesn't have hair there.
(Why is she so serious about it?)
I see.
I think you worry too much.
They are growing up really well.
You don't need to worry. The girls are growing up really up.
It seems like...
you are too worried about the possible void their mom left.
That's why you want to do everything from start to finish.
My daughter likes to write novels.
- Your older daughter? - Yes.
I read what she wrote.
The main character is a child who doesn't have a mom.
And the child's dad always cries.
(Her dad always cries.)
It wasn't my intention to write about my situation,
but the main character came out looking like me.
I didn't know how to describe a mom,
so I wrote it that way.
Both my children and I...
have been scarred.
- Because you feel bad, - I feel bad.
you want to do everything.
(I always feel sorry to you.)
This is what I want to say.
(This is what he wants to say.)
I lost my eyesight in university.
Then I had a corneal transplant...
and overcame the pain.
However, it was nothing...
compared to the pain of a family's betrayal.
That's why I want to tell everyone...
to be good to their families.
(Be good to your family.)
- He overcame pain... - That's right.
thanks to his daughters.
He received help from his daughters.
(I wouldn't have persevered if it weren't for you.)
(We hope they will forget the pain and be happy.)
We have a single dad on the show today,
but there are single moms...
and other forms of a family...
in this society.
When someone is different from us...
- We think it's wrong. - Even the words we say...
without an evil intent...
can leave a scar...
- on someone's heart. - That's right.
- That's right. - We do it often.
A pastor once said,
"The things I say without much thought,"
"can end up hurting someone else."
- That's right. - "I came to realize that."
"However, it can also mean that..."
"you don't have to be hurt..."
"by someone's careless words."
That's what he said.
- Don't get hung up on those words. - That's right.
- It's good advice. - You need to let them go.
Say a few words to your daughters.
I would be grateful if you continue to do well.
Your existence alone...
makes me feel loved.
I will do my best.
I will raise them to the best of my abilities,
so please don't think ill of them.
- We won't. - Please let go of your prejudice.
I sent in my story to say this.
E Eun, what do you want to say to your dad?
"Dad."
Dad, thank you.
If we work hard,
people will let go of their prejudice someday.
- E Ji. - Dad, I love you.
(Dad, I love you.)
All right.
I wish I could give them an award.
I don't think it's a worry.
Okay. Sung Eun.
You get stressed out when you raise children.
- You might explode someday. - That's right.
Before that happens,
you should enjoy some free time.
Then that moment won't come.
Since he's worried about prejudice,
I think it's something all of us should think about.
Third parties should look at them without prejudice.
When I think about prejudice, it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry for the dad,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Time's up. - Stop.
Show us the result.
(The result)
"The Sorrow of Superman".
Not many people voted.
Will it get over 100 votes?
(A lot of people voted.)
The first worry got 157 votes.
- What will be the result? - This worry won't win.
- 1. - 116 votes.
(116 votes)
The title is "The Youngest Daughter's Rebellion".
"Hello."
"I am a 19-year-old girl who is in 12th grade."
"I have many worries about careers."
"It's not my career. It isn't. It really isn't."
- "It's my 13-year-old sister." - He is good, right?
"I have a dream."
"I will be a famous choreographer."
"I was happy that she found a dream at a young age, but..."
"Knock, knock."
"What are you doing in your room all day?"
"I am watching dance videos."
"It's 12am. You should go to bed."
"I am watching dance videos."
"She worked hard at first."
"Actually, I am kidding."
"She only posted on social media and messaged her friends."
"To be a choreographer, you need to practice a lot."
"You don't know anything!"
"Mind your own business! Get out!"
Are you exaggerating?
- It's really on the script. - Yes.
"She doesn't practice dance at all."
"My sister's eyesight and grades are getting worse."
"Please find a good solution for my problem."
(Please stop my sister.)
JB, when did you start practicing as a trainee?
As I liked the hip hop culture,
I started breakdancing.
So I breakdanced from 8th grade until sophomore year of high school.
I was determined to become a professional B-boy,
and then I was casted and had an audition.
I passed it and got to have a dream of becoming a singer.
What about you, Jin Young?
When I was 14 years old...
You were similar in the age with the girl in the story.
I travelled far...
to learn how to dance.
I studied dance like that for 2, 3 years and auditioned for JYP...
- and was selected. - You said you travelled far.
Can you be more specific?
To some people, what you say can show a way...
- to realize their dreams. - Where did you go to learn dance?
My hometown is Jinhae, Gyeongsang Province.
- Jinhae. - I went to Seomyeon, Busan.
Did you go to Seomyeon...
- by yourself? - I took a bus...
- to Sadang area in Busan. - At the age of 14?
Yes. I went to Seomyeon by subway.
- How long does it take? - It must take quite long.
(How long does the journey take?)
When there's a traffic jam, it takes 1 hour and 20 minutes.
(What?)
When there's a traffic jam, it takes 1 hour and 20 minutes.
We imagined it would take about 4 to 5 hours.
It doesn't take that long.
It's in the same Gyeongsang Province.
Please edit out the exact time.
We can edit it out.
Make it seem like he travelled far and wide.
Let's meet the one who's worried. Please come out!
(Who's worried about her sister dreaming of being a choreographer?)
(Choi Young Eun)
Hold JB'S hands.
Hold GOT7's hands.
Hold Jin Young's hands. Goodness.
Hello. I'm the eldest daughter of three sisters.
I'm Choi Young Eun, and I'm 19 years old.
Hello.
How do you feel holding hands of JB and Jin Young?
- GOT7. - They look so handsome.
Thank you.
- What do you think about Cheetah? - She's so beautiful.
She looks more beautiful with her new hairstyle.
How do you feel about Sung Eun?
She has such a small face.
I bet you'll do well socializing in the future.
She really has great business skill.
She speaks so smoothly.
She talks about each of us.
Dong Yeob's eyes are farther apart...
than what you see on screen, right?
There's a teacher at my school.
He resembles my teacher,
only he's handsomer.
Thank you.
I'd like to listen to her comment on each one of the audience.
Excuse me, sir.
This is how you socialize well.
You can do that speaking, not drinking.
(Use your words, not alcohol.)
When did your sister say she dreams of becoming a choreographer?
My sister is 13 years old,
and she said she wanted to become a choreographer a year ago.
- It's been a year. - But,
I've never seen her practicing.
- Not even once? - No.
She brought her friends saying they'd practice.
But they were eating tteokbokki when I saw them.
I guess they were going to practice after eating it.
But they didn't practice.
"But they didn't practice."
At midnight, I saw them again...
wondering if they're watching a dance video.
But they were watching a video of their favorite idol band talking,
and they were just happy with it.
- They were not watching them dance. - They were watching web toons...
social media, and so on.
But it's all right.
They want to have fun at that age.
- I guess your worry is too early. - That's what I'm saying.
I heard her grade were in the 90s before,
but it dropped to the 70s.
It dropped to the 70s.
Ha Eun used to read books a lot, and she was a sweet girl.
But now, when I say something to her, she goes,
- "Who do you think you are?" - She got sensitive.
And she glares at me like her eyes are going to pop.
- Like how? - She rolls her eyes.
She rolls her eyes and glares at me.
(You must be worried a lot.)
Do you oppose to her being a choreographer...
or can you support her if she practices...
and puts a lot of effort into it?
To be honest, in my opinion, she's not practicing at all.
So I'd rather she doesn't do it.
- As she's not practicing it. - Right.
She might think that she has talent,
when she considers what runs in her blood.
All three of us, our sisters,
are not good at either singing or dancing.
So...
I'm worried about her.
I want to give her some advice,
but she wouldn't listen to me. That's what I'm worried.
- You can't talk to her at all. - No.
Then let's meet her sister. Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
She's cute.
Can you understand why your sister is worried?
No. If you only listen to her,
it seems I'm the only one who did wrong.
But she also did wrong.
- What is that? - Your sister did wrong? Go ahead.
- She's covering it up. - I was fiddling with my phone...
late at night...
to look for dance videos...
for practice and all.
But she was misunderstood...
that I was watching social media.
(My sister misunderstood me.)
What kind of efforts are you making?
I meet up with my friends...
to practice dance...
- about 3 to 4 times a week. - She does practice.
I've also performed 3 to 4 times...
at school.
She even performed on the stage.
Who's your favorite choreographer?
Choreographer Bae Yoon Jung...
and Lia Kim...
(Someday)
(I will be like her.)
They are my role models.
- Lia Kim. - They're popular choreographers.
(They're popular choreographers.)
To become a choreographer,
you need to practice a lot.
How long do you practice a day?
I think I practice an hour a day for sure.
- You practice dancing. - Yes.
- No matter what. - Is an hour enough?
Actually, from my experience,
an hour a day is not enough.
When I think of choreographers who taught me...
and famous choreographers in other countries,
they talk about dancing all day long.
In my case, as I needed someone to practice together,
I just joined the communities on the Internet,
got contacts from other people, and contacted them...
to gather and practice together.
I practiced for about two years...
with the music turned on a speaker.
- Did you do that every day? - Yes.
From what time did you start practice?
I started practicing around 4pm after school and danced until...
- at least 8pm? - It's 4 hours every day.
And after that...
(You were so different from my sister.)
Now I'll ask you about this.
Did your grades drop because you spent time dancing...
or because you were hanging out with your friends?
I couldn't study a lot...
as I practiced with my friends for the festival.
I think my sister doesn't know much about me...
as she doesn't see what I'm doing.
Do you think you only have to dance well...
to become a choreographer?
Is that why you neglect your studies?
Well, yes.
- Was that your answer? - She thinks she only has to dance.
(She's still young.)
Why do you get angry with your sister?
Why do you lose your temper?
My sister could have told me kindly not to use the cell phone...
leaving my phone alone, but she just takes my cell phone...
and tells me, "Stop playing with this!"
That can make her angry.
As she has things to do herself,
I would like her to pay less attention to me.
For 2 or 3 times a week,
she says the same thing again and again.
I'm sick of it, and it feels she's nagging me.
Have you got hurt for what your sister told you?
"You can't do it. There are a lot of kids who can dance as you do."
("You can't do it. There are a lot of kids who can dance as you do.")
(She feels sorry.)
- You haven't seen her dancing. - You haven't seen it.
We're not talented by nature.
You said you haven't seen her dancing.
She shows me a 20 second clip of her dancing to me.
Then she takes it away so that I can't see it.
She shows it you and takes it away?
(She's sour.)
Whenever I show her my dancing video,
she asks why I dance like this,
and she criticizes me a lot.
Whenever she goes like that,
I lose confidence about dance.
- Especially in front of her. - Right.
Have you thought about changing the way you talk to her?
I'm her family.
I tend to tell her objectively...
and even when I try to say nicely,
she doesn't listen to me as I'm her sister.
Then I get to speak strongly so that she can listen.
That's why I say harsh things, I guess.
I hope she does it as a hobby.
- As a hobby? - First of all,
everything is getting mechanized these days.
So what do you want her to do?
She should do something only a human can do,
something that a machine can't.
(What's the job her mom recommends her?)
I'm thinking about an engineer who produces robots.
(It's so random.)
- Robotics. - A robot engineer.
Honestly, I'm not interested in it.
But she keeps saying that I should do it,
so I sometimes don't want to listen to her.
If she practices hard and puts a lot of effort,
I'd like to support her.
But as I see, she's all talk.
and she asks me to send her to an academy.
So from a mom's perspective,
if I have to tell her, "Stop practicing!"
"You need to get some sleep!" then...
If you feel sure that she really loves it,
- you can support her. - That's right.
If that's the case, I could support her fully.
Haven't you danced...
in front of your mom and sisters...
intentionally?
When I dance in front of my mom and sisters,
they all tend to criticize a lot.
(She's been dwelling on it.)
(Shortly)
It's nice.
(She's amazed.)
(There's an unexpected twist in her dance ability.)
I think, from Ha Eun's perspective,
she must be worried because no one supports her dream.
You understand her.
However, Ha Eun doesn't make enough effort...
to make her dream come true.
When I'm home with her,
I see her practice dancing sometimes.
But the amount of time she spends on practicing...
- isn't enough to claim... - It's not enough?
it's her dream.
Then do you have a dream?
Yes. My dream is to become a flight attendant.
- A flight attendant. - Is it your dream?
No one in the family supports Ha Eun's dream, right?
When you told your family about your dream,
did they tell you to pursue your dream?
I make the effort to do something like read books...
in front of my mom or my older sister.
But Ha Eun practices in her room...
or at school.
What you can see is not everything Ha Eun does.
It seems like the whole family only criticize her.
- I worried it might hurt her. - They only criticize her.
How does your husband think about it?
My husband is against her dream...
- even more strongly than me. - He's against it.
She must be distressed as no one in her family supports her dream.
- She must be lonely. - Jin Young,
what did your dad say when you said you wanted to become a singer?
My dad gladly approved of it,
but my mom was against it.
- Why? - My dad convinced my mom.
How did your dad convince your mom?
I think he asked her to have faith in me.
- That changed your mom's mind. - Yes.
- My son... - How about your children?
wanted to become a soccer player since he was three.
- He looks up to his dad. - Yes.
But my husband doesn't want him to become a soccer player...
- because it's very hard. - It's hard.
But I can see my son's eyes sparkling...
when he plays soccer.
He loves to watch soccer games too.
I told my husband...
that we can't stop him from doing what he likes,
and I'll support him if he wants to becomes a soccer player.
(Listening to you gives me a lot to think about.)
Ha Eun's family members said she doesn't make any effort.
How do you think as her friend?
We gathered because we all love dancing.
We practice together and perform at school festivals.
Ha Eun is really good at memorizing choreography...
very quickly.
- So she teaches other kids. - She teaches other kids?
- Among the kids in your club, - She practices hard.
how good is Ha Eun?
- She's the best among us. - She's the best?
She's the best among us.
(Ha Eun's family doesn't know how good Ha Eun is.)
- See? She's good. - She must be talented.
All of her friends know that.
Why doesn't she show it to her family?
- Her friends compliment her, - She's daunted.
- and they support her. - That's right.
But her family members don't,
- so she's discouraged. - Exactly.
What's important is...
When you see TV celebrities...
including myself,
some of their families are supportive and say things like...
they were always talented since they were a little child.
But in other cases, their families are surprised by their success.
They didn't show what they can do to their families,
but they constantly made efforts and were acknowledged...
- outside their homes. - That's right.
When I made my debut, my dad asked me to tell a joke,
but I couldn't because I only knew a few adult jokes.
I couldn't bring myself to tell such jokes.
In fact, if we see how well Ha Eun dances,
we can give her better advice...
- That's a good idea. - and understand her family better.
We have to ask Ha Eun...
if she's willing to dance...
in front of this large audience.
(Will Ha Eun be able to reveal her dance skills?)
- Well... I think I can do it. - Sorry?
- Really? - You can do it?
(Everyone roots for her.)
- We have experts here. - Right.
(Meet the judges.)
Shall I stand up, so you'll look thinner?
(She's considerate of Ha Eun.)
All right. I'll make you stand out.
You're going to make her stand out?
- Surround her. - Okay.
Don't worry. We'll make you look thinner.
We'll stand like this.
("Latata" by (G)I-DLE)
(The backup dancers who makes her look prettier are out.)
(She begins her debut performance.)
(The judges are focused on her performance.)
(However...)
(She dances awkwardly.)
(Let me see...)
(Is she...)
(dancing...)
(well?)
(Isn't it a little awkward?)
(The song reached its climax.)
(I never give up.)
(Awkward wave dance)
(Smiling)
(She finished dancing to the complete song.)
- This time, she'll show her own... - Her own dance choreography.
- Right. - Her own choreography.
- Did you make any choreography? - That's a good idea.
It's important to dance well,
but she should be able to create a dance routine...
- Creativity is important. - to become a choreographer, right?
That's right.
(How could the 13-year-old girl's own dance choreography be?)
(She begins enthusiastically.)
Did she create this dance?
(Her sister is paying attention to her dance.)
(It seems a little repetitive, but she's doing enthusiastically.)
(She finishes up...)
(with double step dance.)
(What do the judges really think about her dance?)
That's all.
Thank you.
(You must've been nervous. Good job.)
- Cheetah, what do you think? - Yes.
Please tell us honestly.
(How will the judges evaluate her performance?)
She lacks the fundamentals right now.
(She lacks the fundamentals.)
(Is there no hope...)
(as expected?)
Nevertheless,
she's able to create her own dance routine.
The fact that she's already doing it is more meaningful.
- Regardless of how good she is? - Yes.
She has courage to perform in front of a lot of people.
She can improve step by step.
She's in sixth grade...
- and hasn't had proper training. - Exactly.
- What do you two think? - Right.
- Shall I go first? You go first. - Yes, go ahead.
(How will they evaluate her dance?)
She definitely needs to improve...
- the fundamentals. - I see.
If you want to create something,
you need a fundamental standard.
- Could you show us? - Is there any way to practice it?
- I'm curious. - Please show us.
Show us the basic dance moves.
For the sake of Ha Eun.
- All right. - Show us the basics.
How about the wave dance?
When she danced a wave dance,
- she danced like this, right? - Yes.
Your shirt is too loose. Okay. Now, show us.
Like this.
(My goodness.)
(It's important to make sure to move every part of your body.)
You should practice until you can do this.
(From the head to toe)
- That's great. - You have to keep practicing.
How do you use that skill when you dance?
You have to move one part of your body after another.
- Connect the moves like this. - You can do other dances...
- only when you master the basics. - You have to master it first.
- Just a single dance move. - Right.
You can do variations based on a single move, right?
The issue at hand...
isn't whether or not she's good at dancing...
nor is it a question of whether or not she has talent.
If you show passion for your dream,
I think your mom and sisters...
will support you.
And I think Ha Eun is upset because she wants her family...
to cheer for her while she's pursuing...
her dream.
Why didn't you ask your family...
to have faith in you and cheer for you?
Since they always criticize me,
I don't even want to talk about dance...
to my mom or my sisters.
So I've never tried to before.
That's how she feels right now.
Her heart is closed.
It's hard to pursue a dream.
Those who have a dream feel anxious too.
- Didn't you feel anxious? - Yes.
Everyone feels anxious until they become successful.
But if there's one person who trusts you,
you gain the strength to go on and keep trying.
Even if you can't make your dream come true,
since you learned how to overcome obstacles,
you can overcome difficulties when changing your dreams.
I think she needs her family...
to cheer for her and warm support...
- right now. What do you think? - He's right.
Talking about the matter on this show...
changed my thoughts greatly.
And I realized that I've been treating her poorly.
I feel really sorry.
I realized that I didn't know her well.
I feel very apologetic toward her.
Exactly. You told her to build a robot.
Exactly.
Whenever Ha Eun practiced dancing,
I only told her to leave.
So it was the first time I've seen her dance.
If she tries harder,
- I think I can cheer for her. - Good.
(She smiles lightly.)
- Ha Eun looks a bit happier now. - That's right.
- Her family became supportive. - How do you feel now?
- They've never said it, right? - That's right.
I didn't expect them to cheer for me,
but they listened to what I had to say...
- Oh, no. - My goodness.
She was hurt all this time.
She held back until now.
- Listening to her alone helps her. - That's right.
Now, they understand how much I want to pursue my dream.
(She's cute.)
Go on. It's okay.
The viewers might be scared though.
Fix your hair.
To be honest, at first, I...
was really upset.
(She finally tells how she really feels.)
But...
I'm sorry for being mean...
to my family.
I know. You must feel apologetic.
She's a good girl.
I'm just grateful.
Is there something you want to say to your little sister?
I want you to keep trying hard as you've done until now,
and I'll always cheer for you.
- She has such a sweet heart. - That's right.
She has such a good personality.
- Se Yoon. - Yes.
I'm so happy that they eventually understood each other.
However, I want her to continue pursuing her dream seriously.
I think it's a worry.
- It's a worry. - It's her sister's perspective.
Is it from her sister's perspective?
Yes, from her sister's perspective.
- Then I made a mistake. - I see.
- You pushed the button already. - I can't cancel it.
If it's your dream until the end, you need to practice a lot more,
and you should study for sure.
- Exactly. - A choreographer needs to study.
A choreographer needs to be smart to do her work.
- I don't think it's a worry. - All right.
It seems that it's not a worry.
I think the problem is solved for her sister.
If you think it's a worry for the sister and the family,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Stop!
Please show us the result. "The Youngest Daughter's Rebellion".
(The result)
The number is out. It's 38.
(38 votes)
"Please Don't Break Up" is this week's winner.
The winner will receive prize money.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
("Lullaby" by GOT7)